So about 2 years ago my GF moved into my home. She treats me very well and is very nice to me but she really hasn’t contributed much of anything in that time. I make dinner 80% plus of the time, I pay 100% of the mortgage, utilities, property taxes etc.
When she moved in she said she’d contribute money for utilities and keep the fridge stocked. Neither has happened. She sent me $300 for utilities on 2 occasions ($600/mo is closer to what utilities cost here), and never stocks the fridge. She doesn’t clean a lot, do laundry or help me with much.
She makes over $100k, and spends every dime of it on herself (mostly on dumb stuff), and invests none of it. I have had many conversations about the topic of money and her not contributing and I always get excuses. I also learned that she has almost nothing in savings which baffled me.
She acknowledges that her behavior is unreasonable and promises to change, but she never does. If anything it’s gotten worse lately. I also noticed she has a lot of credit cards recently and am curious if she has racked up debt on those. I could go on and on over things that don’t add up in a partnership.
I make good money and could probably find a way to just support us both (not super comfortably), but I don’t want to do that and given our situation I shouldn’t have to. My business is also slow currently and having some help would be very nice.
I really just feel taken advantage of and not sure what my next move is. The frank conversations with her have not gotten through. I don’t want to work my whole life to support someone who blows money recklessly and makes my retirement age get higher.
Thanks in advance for any advice.
Хобааа, пополамный додя загрустил, что баба, переехавшая в его(!) ипотечку, не платит ЕГО ипотечку билят ь. И не стирает его трусы. Проперти тэксес она должна платить за ЕГО хату, ну ебануться. Как говорит моя подруга "какие нахой пополамщики, пополамщики - это уже люкс, эти додики хотят, чтоб за них платили".
Сейчас почитаю визг его обристанных комрадов про то какая она меркантильная тварь, брось ее, нади 18 летнюю топ фитнес модел, которая будет гасить твою ебатеку
